I'm not a brothelgoer but there's two guys I work with that go to them fairly regularly as in every couple of months or so , and are quite open about the fact and their experiences with me. I'm guessing this thread is dead now seeing as it's a throwaway, but I'm crazy good at picking up girls in bars. I would recommend this lady if you have first time jitters. This is a much more helpful comment than saying "don't do it, who cares if you're a virgin".
Also a virgin here, a few years younger than you though. Considered going to a brothel in the past, my brother even offered to pay for me to go, he says there's nothing wrong with it, as you can just have no strings attached sex without all the bullshit involved in relationships or trying to pick up girls. I agree, but for whatever dumb reason I wanna lose mine to a non-prostitute first.
That said, I'm paying someone to be my friend and talk to me, which is probably worse. Thanks for asking man, but no I'm not. Lonely as fuck, have a lot of problems I'm dealing with, and don't have anyone to talk to because I don't know how to make friends because of whatever fucking reason, so I've resorted to that.
But thanks for asking. Frankies, Tuesday night next week for rock 'n roll karaoke. I'll shout you a beer. Hey man I would happily chat to you if you wanted, just send me a PM if you need to shoot the shit. Paying for someone to be your friend doesn't sound ideal! But do put yourself out there. Take up one of these people below's offers and let friendship happen! And you're right - friendship can't be forced.
But the more you put yourself out there the higher the chance of finding those organic connections are. You can further increase the odds by getting involved with things that interest you to increase the likelihood of meeting people with shared interests.
I find it fairly easy to make friends but this is because I am a fairly social person. In the last few years I started taking some evening dance classes. I went by myself because it was something I wanted to do, and over time I made friends with other people who went too. You can't rush it. It was probably 18 months for a real friendship to develop outside of class, which is why you need to commit to the activity before the people, and stick with it.
What are you interested in? What are you involved in that puts you out in the community where you could feasibly meet people? You should totally do it! There must be things out there that interest you - you just need to find them! When you're doing things that are fun you'll feel better about yourself even before you make new friends - you'll feel fitter if its something that helps your fitness and like you have more about you of interest that will attract people to you.
And even if you don't find the thing that you enjoy right away you'll have new experiences to talk about. There are two things that stick out to me in your post that I really think would help you out in the future. You need to start initiating the meet ups. Maybe I'm incorrect, but it seems like you're counting the friendship as over when they stop texting you or inviting you out.
Are you inviting them to hang out at all? Are you texting them out of the blue and asking how they are? People notice when they seem to be inviting someone every time but they never invite back, it should be an equal, two-way street of effort and interest.
Don't just let people forget you're there. Never talk about your problems with people you don't know very well. People continue friendships when they enjoy the time spent with that person. People enjoy it when they have positive conversations about things they both like, or when when they are made to feel good about themselves. To me it seems like you have a lot of negativity and issues that people don't want to elect to have in their lives.
You say friendship ends sooner when it's not about your problems, but have you actually put effort into having positive conversations with them? You say you "ask them about themselves" but is there real effort and interest there? Do you ask about their sports team you know they're on or how their sick mom is or any other specific questions, or is it more general?
If you really want to then go ahead but honestly, you're If you were 40 and it still hadn't happened then I could see why you'd really want to do this. If there's other things in your life that's stopping you from connecting with people which seems like the case all of that will still be there when you're done paying for sex. Sex without some kind of connection with the person, even if it's just a one off, in the moment thing, can be pretty empty.
I recommend this as well. But wait until after you've had sex to drink it otherwise you'll need to pee. Sounds like having sex isn't actually going to help you. If you're going to self classify as "ugly and lanky" then once you have sex with a prostitute, what's next? Having sex with a pro won't help with your confidence or other skills which may be "limiting" your ability to date or pick up.
IMO, you'll regret the decision and realise that it didn't change anything. Sounds like a bandaid. Good for you bro. I don't think you need to worry about not having lost it yet, but fuck it.
Get in there son. Lose it how you want OP. It's a meaningless line to cross in the grand scheme of things. Go for it mate. It'll be a good experience that you'll learn from. Seems like a lot of prudes on Sydney Reddit. Plenty of people don't lose their virginity till later. If you want to have sex by paying for it fine man up and say so but don't be doing it because you feel you're the odd man out that's a fucked reason for it!
And I want to pay for sex because I want to find out what I'm missing out on and cross it off my bucket list as bad as that sounds, haha. From my experience the majority of people girls at least have had sex by I only know one other virgin who is past mid twenties.
Not that it matters to anyone but yourself or that anyone else will be able to sense your unicorn powers. I'm 21 and I only know a couple of male virgins my age, and one of those is abstaining for religious reasons.
Sex with a prostie is nothing like sex with someone who wants more than your money. I dont think you can cross sex off your bucket list until you fuck someone who also wants to fuck you maybe you just need to split the point in two. You may think thats impossible for you, or what im saying isnt true, but dont stop looking for a mutual fuck because its much better when its just for fun, not a job. Lanky and introverted can be two features attractive to a women, you just have to find her and notice whe shes attracted.
But yeah if its what you really want, go for it, everyones different, i cant say your sex will be best when its mutual, maybe you can only get off when its not Although, imo, having sex for the first time will be disappointing, irrespective of if its with a professional. It's kinda like most "adult" things tbh, beards, public hair, buying your first beer, you build the issue up in your head bigger than it should be.
Don't do it bro I can understand the will to want to go but its worth you just holding off and waiting for a nice girl. Trust me, as disgusting as it may be Along with their hot bodies, it would be difficult to forget an experience here. They will invite and seduce you, making it difficult to resist.
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